The crisis – or “change” if you will – makes us vulnerable and opens us up to stress and fear of what might happen, whether it is an unexpected dismissal from work, an unexpected tax claim, birth, divorce, cancer diagnosis, disability, pension or a planned move or emigration from one place to another. In all cases, the situation brings about a CHANGE with corresponding “grief reactions” over losing something familiar in order to have to start something else. – Everyone experiences it, but few talk about it.